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Ejaculation control – WHY lasting longer could change your life!

When men try to last longer, they usually focus on the ‘how’ – Squeeze this, breathe there, etc.

But the real secret to lasting longer is finding WHY it doesn’t serve you to ejaculate and WHY it’s so powerful to control your ejaculation.

Register to the free ejaculation control program to get 6 more videos with important ideas and practices to help you last longer:



  1. I enjoy the consistent and high states of energy that come about from retaining, that I can then put into my work, my world and relationships. I do struggle with feeling a little over-powered at about the 1.5 -2 week mark. There are certainly more pros than cons in retaining. Thank you.

    • That’s a great ‘Why’ @disqus_Mew6lkaYCw:disqus.

      What do you mean by ‘over-powered’? Is it too hard to keep going?

      • No pun intended there of course : ) Is it not too hard, I get edgy / frustrated easily around the 1.5 week mark and then it calms down again if I keep going. However I probably release about every 2 weeks at the moment.

        • It’s natural for things to come up when energy builds up.
          that’s why most people ejaculate, have a clit orgasm, squander an inheritance or sabotage their career – they can’t deal with the intensity, with their own greatness and with the increased energy that is associated with it.

          Puns? bring them on. i’m a punny guy.

  2. I think the big “Why” for me came when I ejaculated and felt the loss of energy as a real thing. It was a pivotal moment of omg I don’t want to just give that away unconsciously. I have also felt the build in energy when I have not ejaculated for a period of a couple of weeks through self-exploration but then the cycle of sex and ejaculation depletes this energy. How do I hold onto it, how do I use it in my daily life, how can it be used to increase creativity? These are some of the questions I have.

    Another Why is to be able to connect at ever deepening levels with my partner; opening our connectivity, our love and our pleasure; unconscious ejaculatory orgasms don’t allow for that to happen.

    • @disqus_CR4URVXS1F:disqus That’s beautiful, and it’s exactly what i mean by the ‘Why’.
      The next videos are gonna answer some of your questions – register and stay tuned.

  3. Please inform me how to control ejaculation for 1 hour or more

  4. Im feeling awesome today. Probably about 1+ week of retaining, drinking lots of green shakes, uddiyana breathing etc. AND I HAVE A QUESTION. My morning ritual sees me in the shower self pleasuring, and I am STANDING UP.

    I find it harder to master my PC muscles in this position, with legs apart (Semi horse stance) … is that a common experience? Is it easier to be lying down (with a beginners mind), legs relaxed in order to experience a NE orgasm? I guess I can simply do the experiment, its not currently part of my ritual. I am trying to bring my legs together (still standing) as an experiment, would love some advice.


  5. Learning to separate orgasm and ejaculation is so important, every man should learn. I think the key is in being able to trust your heart. Thanks for talking about this important topic.

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