How to Teach Your Man to Pleasure and Connect with You

So you can enjoy the best orgasms of your life!


How many times did it happen to you that a man kissed you too early?

Went straight to your boobs and touched them too rough?

Fingered you too early and too strong?

Penetrated you before you were 100% ready and started pounding you?

Thought he knew what he was doing and you had to put up with it?

If you are like many of the women i work with, it probably happened dozens or even hundreds of times.

One of the most popular questions I get asked by women is:

“How can I teach my man how to touch me?”

Or similarly:
“How can I get my man into Tantra?”

One of them shared:

“I love my man, but he doesn’t know how to touch me, or how to make love with me. I tried everything, but he doesn’t understand. Seriously, I’m so sexually frustrated that I don’t know how long I could stay in this relationship if he doesn’t learn !!”

Can you relate?

To be honest, it’s not easy.

Men often think they know what they’re doing.

Or they feel challenged when a woman tells them what to do.

Or they watch porn, which makes them even worse lovers.

Or they do what worked for their previous partner… Don’t you hate that ?!

So, it’s not easy to get a man to learn how to touch you.

But it’s possible.

Some things you could do to get your man to touch you better

For nearly a decade, I’ve been teaching men how to become better lovers and guiding couples how to improve their sex lives.

This is what worked for my clients and students:

First of all, don’t try to TEACH tantra or sexuality to your partner.
Teaching or even explaining puts you in a masculine, emissive role.
That creates resistance in most men.
Instead, you need to find indirect ways to get him to learn.
You need to seduce him to discover it by himself.
You need to get him to learn FROM SOMEONE ELSE !
Watching Tantric videos together is a great example.
Just start playing the video before he enters the room and see what happens.

Second, many women try to explain something to their man in feminine language.

He’s a man! He doesn’t understand what you are talking about!
In order to get a man to understand, he needs information which is clear, structured and technical.

Third, most men are visual.
They need to see something in order to get it.
If you just explain it, they don’t get it.
That’s why videos are so good.

If a picture is better than a thousand words,
a video is better than a thousand pictures.

Watch one such video i created, by clicking this image:


Even total beginners can get it

A few years ago I started holding “Awakening female pleasure” workshops where I taught men how to connect with and pleasure women.

I witnessed men with very little prior experience hold space for women, and these women were able to relax, trust, cry, shout, and, yes, experience amazing orgasms, sometimes for the first time in their life.

It was so inspiring and humbling and touching to see those transformations.

But some people didn’t feel comfortable to attend a public workshop.
Others who live too far couldn’t attend my workshops.

But I wanted to make these life-changing practices available for more people all around the world.

So I decided to create my new online video program “Awakening female pleasure”.

“Awakening Female Pleasure”

A video program to show a man how to touch you

In this program, I share with men both the mindset and the practices to be able to better pleasure and connect with you – sexually, emotionally and spiritually.

Some of the things I cover in the program include:

Mindset and communications:

  • Pleasuring a woman isn’t about the techniques. He first needs to be present and relaxed, to feel you and connect with you through his eyes, breath, voice, hugs, and his loving presence
  • He shouldn’t stress you to orgasm or to have any kind of sexual interaction.
  • What he can do so you feel safe and relaxed
  • ASK you how you want to be held, touched, pleasured, and made love to (and follow what you’re saying)

Touch and massage:

  • He shouldn’t move too fast or directly to your erogenous zones. Instead, he should wait, go slower, pause, go around your sexy bits, until YOU are ASKING him to touch you
  • How to turn a simple hug into a sensual and orgasmic experience
  • The five kinds of touch (aka ‘don’t be boring’)
  • How to give you an internal and external yoni (vaginal) massage
  • How to give you energy orgasms, whole body orgasms, 10-minutes orgasms, and more

The program focuses on presence and touch, and doesn’t cover sexual intercourse.
However, you can both use these techniques and practices in your love making.

Watch a short video about using the Air element touch (NSFW…) :


Here's a testimonial by Susan Santoro, a business coach from Melbourne, for Eyal's "Awakening female pleasure" weekend workshop:

"I thought I was quite good at massage. The awakening course has brought it to another level!"

“I thought I was quite good at massage.  The awakening course has brought it to another level.  The 5 elements of touch adds layers and layers of sensation to our touch.  I think it also gave me confidence to go so much slower than I ever have and the slower I went the better it was!  The Slow Rub is AMAZING and like nothing i have ever done! Thanks ”  ~ Jonathan

What’s Included

HD Instruction Videos

Over 8 hours of videos in high definition + step-by-step instructions.

Real Demo

Videos are demonstrated on a woman who also shares her sensations, feelings and feedback

Private FB Group

A private FB group to ask questions and share your success stories (When he gave you a yoni massage that resulted in the best orgasms of your life)

Access Anywhere

Access the program from your laptop or mobile phone

No Drip Content

Immediate access to the WHOLE program – no need to wait for week-by-week lessons

Free 5 years membership

The program will be available to you for at least 5 years.

Why this “Men’s program” is great for women?

While this is a program aimed at men, it can greatly serve you as a woman.

If you’re currently in a relationship, this is the perfect program to watch together with him. You choose if you want to watch the whole thing or just the sections i recommend.

There is even a 20 minute video where I explain to you how to support your partner in this exciting exploration.

If your man isn’t interested in all this “Tantra stuff”, you can get the program and watch it by yourself. Then gradually you can play with making some subtle requests from your man, without calling it “Tantra”.

If you’re single, you can watch the program and later share it with your future lover, or just use what you learnt to make suggestions that will excite him and requests that he will understand and follow.

If you are a woman who makes love with women, please accept my apologies for my heteronormative language (as my experiences are hetero and I need to use simple language that would appeal to most people). The program will work great for you regardless of gender or sexual preference.

Eyal Matsliah, Best Selling Author and Tantric Coach

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Your Instructor

I’ve been exploring Tantric sexuality since around 2000.

After being asked by women to heal them and men to teach them, I became a professional sexual healer, educator and coach in 2009.

I’ve held workshops and spoke at festivals around the world.

My writing has appeared in the huffington post, bustle, readers digest and I was interviewed on the Melissa Amborisini podcast , Triple J Radio (ABC Australia) and other esteemed media channels.

I’ve published a best selling orgasm book for women called “Orgasm Unleashed – Your guide to Pleasure, Healing and Power”, which was endorsed by female sexuality educators and described by one of them as ‘the best orgasm guide for women”.

Over 50,000 people arrive at my website every month in search of sexual education and empowerment.

Testimonials for Eyal’s work

“Eternally grateful!”
~ Layla Martin, Sexuality educator, USA.

“Eyal has taught me to take control of my sexual energy.”
~ Shaney Marie, Sexuality Guide & Sacred Arts Educator, Australia

“Eyal guided me through a solo process whereby I accessed a deep and powerful orgasmic state that lasted over an hour.” ~ Juliet Allen, Sexologist

“Opens up realms for the deepest transformation!” ~ Sanna Sanita – Sexual Healer at Panja

Some of the benefits you might experience include:

  • Having your first orgasm or many new kinds of orgasms (there’s over 20! )
  • Improving conditions like low libido, vaginal dryness, or pain during sex
  • Becoming more easily and quickly aroused, from a wider variety of touch and non-sexual activities
  • A deeper sense of loving yourself, your body and your life
  • A better ability to know what you want, to ask for it, and to uphold your boundaries
  • Healing physical and emotional pain and trauma
  • Feeling more connected to your femininity and womanhood
  • Improving your sex life and relationship
  • Becoming more creative, empowered and relaxed in your daily life

30 Days Money Back Guarantee

The testimonials show that the programme works with amazing results. But just in case, I offer a 100% money-back guarantee during the first 30 days after you join the program if you’re the slightest bit unsatisfied.

So even if you’re just curious, why not come have a look. If you decide the course isn’t for you, then you’re free to change your mind.

Are you tired of being sexually frustrated?

Are you ready to take your love making to new levels?

Are you excited by all that is possible once you watch this program?

Premium Plan
$785 $497

  • 1 hour phone/video private 1:1 coaching call with Eyal ($300 value)
  • Your private questions answered… in private…
  • 5 email support interactions ($250 value)
  • Knowing you are committed to your love life and relationship (Priceless !)

And save $288

Full Plan
$47/month for 5 months

  • Over 8 hours of HD videos
  • Step-by-step instructions
  • Private FB support group 
  • 5 years membership to the program
  • Immediate access to the whole program 
+ Free digital copy of “Orgasm Unleashed
+ Video demos from my weekend workshops with other women
+ The basics of the ejaculation control 

Frequently Asked Questions

The course is open for registration a few times a year.  It is a completely self-paced online course – you decide when you watch the different modules.

After enrolling, you will have unlimited access to the course for at least 5 years.

We will probably keep it online for much longer…

We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.

The program is simple and straightforward. If you watch all the videos and practice, it WILL work for you. Some people feel the difference within a few days!

As you watch the program, you’ll first learn how to touch your own body in self pleasuring. Then, when you connect with a partner in the future, you will be able to explain to them more clearly what you like and how you like it. You will be able to watch the videos together as well.  Don’t wait till you are with a partner – take things into your own hands, and the partner will come.

The program is the best sexual education for you. It has a lot of practices you can do before you actually have penetrative sex.

Welcome sister ! You can watch this program alone and teach your current or future partner. You could also watch it together with him.

While the program doesn’t provide solutions to these issues, it does teach your man all the ways he can connect with and pleasure you without penetration. So it’s the perfect thing to learn while he is working on his PE or ED.

Click here for information about my free “Ejaculation Control” program. 

YES! You can do most of the practices on any body, regardless of sex or gender of you or your partner. Please excuse me for the heteronormative language.

No problem. The program is very easy. Just see the videos.

The program is very easy to use.

If you can browse the internet, you can use the program.

YES! The system will automatically display a lower-resolution version.

Anything else you need to know before getting the program?

Let me know at [email protected]




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