How many times did it happen to you that a man kissed you too early?
Went straight to your boobs and touched them too rough?
Fingered you too early and too strong?
Penetrated you before you were 100% ready and started pounding you?
Thought he knew what he was doing and you had to put up with it?
If you are like many of the women i work with, it probably happened dozens or even hundreds of times.
One of the most popular questions I get asked by women is:
“How can I teach my man how to touch me?”
“How can I get my man into Tantra?”
Can you relate?
To be honest, it’s not easy.
Men often think they know what they’re doing.
Or they feel challenged when a woman tells them what to do.
Or they watch porn, which makes them even worse lovers.
Or they do what worked for their previous partner… Don’t you hate that ?!
So, it’s not easy to get a man to learn how to touch you.
But it’s possible.
For nearly a decade, I’ve been teaching men how to become better lovers and guiding couples how to improve their sex lives.
This is what worked for my clients and students:
First of all, don’t try to TEACH tantra or sexuality to your partner.
Teaching or even explaining puts you in a masculine, emissive role.
That creates resistance in most men.
Instead, you need to find indirect ways to get him to learn.
You need to seduce him to discover it by himself.
You need to get him to learn FROM SOMEONE ELSE !
Watching Tantric videos together is a great example.
Just start playing the video before he enters the room and see what happens.
Second, many women try to explain something to their man in feminine language.
He’s a man! He doesn’t understand what you are talking about!
In order to get a man to understand, he needs information which is clear, structured and technical.
Third, most men are visual.
They need to see something in order to get it.
If you just explain it, they don’t get it.
That’s why videos are so good.
If a picture is better than a thousand words,
a video is better than a thousand pictures.
A few years ago I started holding “Awakening female pleasure” workshops where I taught men how to connect with and pleasure women.
I witnessed men with very little prior experience hold space for women, and these women were able to relax, trust, cry, shout, and, yes, experience amazing orgasms, sometimes for the first time in their life.
It was so inspiring and humbling and touching to see those transformations.
But some people didn’t feel comfortable to attend a public workshop.
Others who live too far couldn’t attend my workshops.
But I wanted to make these life-changing practices available for more people all around the world.
So I decided to create my new online video program “Awakening female pleasure”.
In this program, I share with men both the mindset and the practices to be able to better pleasure and connect with you – sexually, emotionally and spiritually.
Some of the things I cover in the program include:
The program focuses on presence and touch, and doesn’t cover sexual intercourse.
However, you can both use these techniques and practices in your love making.
Watch a short video about using the Air element touch (NSFW…) :
“I thought I was quite good at massage. The awakening course has brought it to another level. The 5 elements of touch adds layers and layers of sensation to our touch. I think it also gave me confidence to go so much slower than I ever have and the slower I went the better it was! The Slow Rub is AMAZING and like nothing i have ever done! Thanks ” ~ Jonathan
While this is a program aimed at men, it can greatly serve you as a woman.
If you’re currently in a relationship, this is the perfect program to watch together with him. You choose if you want to watch the whole thing or just the sections i recommend.
There is even a 20 minute video where I explain to you how to support your partner in this exciting exploration.
If your man isn’t interested in all this “Tantra stuff”, you can get the program and watch it by yourself. Then gradually you can play with making some subtle requests from your man, without calling it “Tantra”.
If you’re single, you can watch the program and later share it with your future lover, or just use what you learnt to make suggestions that will excite him and requests that he will understand and follow.
If you are a woman who makes love with women, please accept my apologies for my heteronormative language (as my experiences are hetero and I need to use simple language that would appeal to most people). The program will work great for you regardless of gender or sexual preference.
I’ve been exploring Tantric sexuality since around 2000.
After being asked by women to heal them and men to teach them, I became a professional sexual healer, educator and coach in 2009.
I’ve held workshops and spoke at festivals around the world.
My writing has appeared in the huffington post, bustle, readers digest and I was interviewed on the Melissa Amborisini podcast , Triple J Radio (ABC Australia) and other esteemed media channels.
I’ve published a best selling orgasm book for women called “Orgasm Unleashed – Your guide to Pleasure, Healing and Power”, which was endorsed by female sexuality educators and described by one of them as ‘the best orgasm guide for women”.
Over 50,000 people arrive at my website every month in search of sexual education and empowerment.
~ Layla Martin, Sexuality educator, USA.
“Eyal has taught me to take control of my sexual energy.”
~ Shaney Marie, Sexuality Guide & Sacred Arts Educator, Australia
“Eyal guided me through a solo process whereby I accessed a deep and powerful orgasmic state that lasted over an hour.” ~ Juliet Allen, Sexologist
“Opens up realms for the deepest transformation!” ~ Sanna Sanita – Sexual Healer at Panja
And save $288
$47/month for 5 months
The course is open for registration a few times a year. It is a completely self-paced online course – you decide when you watch the different modules.
After enrolling, you will have unlimited access to the course for at least 5 years.
We will probably keep it online for much longer…
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.
The program is simple and straightforward. If you watch all the videos and practice, it WILL work for you. Some people feel the difference within a few days!
As you watch the program, you’ll first learn how to touch your own body in self pleasuring. Then, when you connect with a partner in the future, you will be able to explain to them more clearly what you like and how you like it. You will be able to watch the videos together as well. Don’t wait till you are with a partner – take things into your own hands, and the partner will come.
The program is the best sexual education for you. It has a lot of practices you can do before you actually have penetrative sex.
Welcome sister ! You can watch this program alone and teach your current or future partner. You could also watch it together with him.
While the program doesn’t provide solutions to these issues, it does teach your man all the ways he can connect with and pleasure you without penetration. So it’s the perfect thing to learn while he is working on his PE or ED.
YES! You can do most of the practices on any body, regardless of sex or gender of you or your partner. Please excuse me for the heteronormative language.
No problem. The program is very easy. Just see the videos.
The program is very easy to use.
If you can browse the internet, you can use the program.
YES! The system will automatically display a lower-resolution version.